Do Givers Really Gain?

I used to be part of a networking organization that had at its core the philosophy of ‘givers gain’.

The organization (if you’re interested, and if you’re not close your eyes now) was called Business Network International.

Anyway, the whole theory behind it is that if you help another fellow business owner out with a lead or assistance in some way they will scratch your back in return.

"But I can’t be arsed.."

It all works well in theory until you are actually faced with the prospect of having to go out of your way to help someone. Too many people take the line that it’s too difficult to run ONE successful business never mind having to go out of your way to help someone else’s.

But that’s where the lazy layabouts lose out.  It’s only when you start thinking outside your own office that your business really starts to grow.

I learned this with my time at Business Network International and now I’m applying the same principles to my online networking efforts - help others first and think of what you can do to move their businesses forward..

So what happened to me and BNI?

Simple really - it helped my business massively back then as it was local, physical world contacts I needed for my one-to-one consultancy.  But for years all my business has come from the Internet so the need to meet local business owners became a lower priority than networking with like-minded people on the Internet..

</sermon ends>  ;o)

One Response

  1. Don Says:

    I think this thought needs to be expanded beyond what you say. It’s funny that I’ve come across this post because those of us just starting out in this industry are finding that it is a bit of the survival of the fittest and not very connected to giver’s gain. Too many times I see high powered gurus too busy to assist new online businesses and others just too focused on their own. I’ve been trying to connect to those who are at my same business level - as if we are the class of 2006 or 2007. It has already paid off for my business with connections, ideas, partners, etc. Frankly, it starts to revolve around trust.

    I think there actually might be something to this from a marketing community effort - interesting idea. Thanks!

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